In 2017 we’ll offer the New Tribe Training on: May 18-21 Asheville, NC. & December 7-10 Ashland, OR. We want to guide you step by step in how to co-create your very own tribe! Please see the info below for details. If you’re ready call us at 541-482-2335 or send a note!
This workshop is for people longing for their own long-term, bonded community of people, we call tribe. This “new” tribe is designed to deepen love and connection in your life as well as create a safety net to navigate rapidly changing times. We will learn by doing – experiencing the ways of the tribe; the values, skills and needed structure. The non-residential model (everyone has their own home) we have developed will bring you great joy and save you years of struggle attempting to learn what we have to share.
The Sites: The places we use feel homey. We’ll be at the Center for Art & Spirituality in Asheville and the Evolve Center in Ashland. Local people will return home at night and out of town guests may stay at a B&B, motel or with friends.
Per Person (hard cost) Deposit Fee: We ask $175 which includes the site cost and catered food. (four nights, five days). This does not include lodging.
Gift Contribution – sliding scale: Beyond the hard costs for food and lodging, to support ourselves and our work, we invite a monetary contribution ($300-$1500) based on the value you receive, ability to pay and interest in supporting our work in the world
OUR INTENTION: We want every student to “feel” tribe and return home having learned exactly how to build your own. It will include how to find the people, how to invite them and then how to facilitate the “orientation and initiation” training process for bonding the tribe. Each student will learn how to hold the “joy space” of deep intimacy and create beautiful ceremonies to mark the passages into tribe.
- Learn the skills of building long-term personal community (tribe).
- Explore deep trust between men and women in your tribe.
- Enjoy deep presence/intimacy and replicate it.
- Grow your tribe membership in a loving way.
MOST SIGNIFICANT LEARNING: After 7 years of exploring just how to build a tribe, we finally found the key. Each person invited into tribe goes thru a training class we call the “tribe orientation and initiation.” It includes tribe values, structure and the essential skills needed to function well in our tribe. These skills include safety between men and women, safe authentic intimacy and conflict resolution. You will learn all this!
INTRODUCING OUR TRIBE: We are well into our 4th year now, meeting every week. The photo on our masthead and Communities magazine cover is from our 2013 retreat on the coast. There are 20 of us now, we live in our own homes, we’re bonded, committed and love being with each other, at least once a week. This is a photo our “tribe” in December 2015 on our third annual Solstice retreat complete with a wonderful re-commitment ceremony.
People often ask; What do you do in your tribe? Like family, we meet together, eat together, play together a few times per week. Last year a dozen of us helped Norm (crutches, very sore foot) and Brenda paint their new house, followed by pizza and beer, of course. The week before that nearly the whole tribe showed up to support Jack at an art opening, then spontaneously eight of us went out for a late dinner and laughed a told stories. It’s what we do, we’re family.
However, unlike most families, (this is our tribe goofing on our 2016 retreat) we meet every week to grow and learn together. One week our topic might be home, inner identity, mortality or joy. Each week a different person or team takes leadership to guide us into a process to play, explore a topic or expand our intimacy boundaries. We have designed our tribe as a cauldron for evolving us as secure, loving humans. A sense grows in us of just knowing we belong, like falling back safely into the arms of our tribe.
It took us years to learn how to bond and hold our tribe together. Now, we can teach you how to build and sustain your own tribe so much more quickly!! – Bill & Zoe
Bill & Zoe: Authors, seminar leaders, tribe builders, personal counselors with vast training background.
The “Time for Tribe” Training led by Bill, Zoe and Jack was an extraordinary experience. Their skillful and balanced leadership drew the participants into such an atmosphere of such safety and trust, that intimacy was established almost immediately. They modeled 100% trustworthiness in everything they taught – they weren’t afraid to be real, human, and vulnerable along with the rest of us.
Zoe brought in the feminine aspects with her beautiful singing, dance and ritual, which perfectly complemented the sensitive contributions of Bill and Jack as they guided us through the more masculine structured and strategic elements of the program. We learned and practiced the skills necessary for successful tribe-building. We bonded, discussed, listened, learned, and laughed a lot.
This training and tribe-building is the perfect antidote to the isolation and disillusionment that so many people feel today. I came away with the knowledge I needed on how to begin the process of establishing a tribe in my own community. I can’t say enough good things about this training and its leaders. I highly recommend it to anyone interested in learning how to establish their own family of choice.”
– Gael McCool: Author, inspirational teacher, and transformational life coach. (http://ifeelmorenow.com/)
I experienced a piece of myself that makes being a champion possible. The leadership did the difficult dance of teaching, leading and presenting while staying connected with us as part of a temporary tribe. Kudus and much appreciated! – Michal Schaffer
Well Done! It was organized well. I didn’t feel rushed or “too much info overload” and the exercises were well paced, appropriate and very helpful! – Debra Sheetz
The leadership is Exemplary! The holding of the group, the modeling of relationship and the quality of the teaching were superb. – Susan Mashkes
Yvonne and I are aligned on all fronts for this project. Our “championship” is assured as we’re completely confident in our situation and plans to recruit tribe members. – Jack Travis MD
SOME OVERALL THEORY ON GROWTH IN A “NEW” TRIBE:
“You can take people out of the tribe, but you can’t take tribe out of people.” We are tribal creatures – it lives in us, so lets take a look at how this archetypal quality can flow as “new” tribe.
“NEW” TRIBE is about your powerful growth as a person:
Allow us to offer a “map” (below) to give you a sense of how “new tribe” fits into the larger picture. The human evolutionary process has taken us from tribal hunter-gatherers (#1&2 below) to urban competitive (#5) creatures, with ever greater speed. Humankind is now entering a new global worldview, and our “new tribe” work is designed to make “The Leap.” The ManKind Project (MKP) and similar women’s “inner work” help guide people along an evolving path from #4 & 5 to #6. Then after some years in support-groups they somehow “leap” across that line into the “neo-tribal” (#8) possibility. See this graphic below as an evolutionary “world-view” map.
This “leap” from #6 to #7 is called the paradigm shift where everything changes because one now includes all past worldviews. Here we move beyond linear cause and effect into synchronicity, sometimes called the “field” or simply a miracle. Here war ends because we can see and appreciate the human journey and all the people who struggled with their evolving process. Here we find the ability to see that cooperation simply works so much better for everyone than competition. This is the new culture coming into being.
Notice also in the map how the world-views alternate from “individual” (odd numbers) to “community” (even numbers) and we keep moving from simple to complex. Our retreat will explore the neo-tribal #8, which barely exists at this time on planet earth. We can not go back to tribal #2 or the authoritarian #4, we have become too complex to go back. Many of us grew up in the Humanistic era #6, and now we take on the challenge to build our “new tribes” #8 which includes all we have learned before, now moving into the unknown. Join us in this amazing experiment!